Body language, both good and bad, is very important for all business leaders to understand and utilize. When you cultivate good body language you create a more welcoming work environment with happier employees. It doesnâ€™t matter if youâ€™re a COO, a CEO, or even just the guy who is in charge of delivering mail to the office. No matter who you are, your body language matters.
Body language determines how people evaluate and respect you in the workplace. Poor body language makes bad first impressions and leads to misunderstandings. All business leaders know how important those first impressions are!
Here are five of the worst body language mistakes you, or anyone, especially business leaders, can make at work and how to fix them.
Your Cell Phone is in Sight
This is a body language mistake that many people make without even realizing it â€”staying near their phone at all times. Keeping your cell phone in your line of vision during things such as meetings gives your employees the impression that youâ€™re more interested in your cell phone than in them. They assume that if the phone buzzes, youâ€™ll check it.
Besides, you wouldnâ€™t want your employees to have their phones out either, even if they werenâ€™t using them. When your phone is sitting out, a notification is far too distracting.
It is important that all business leaders keep their cell phones out of sight during meetings. Use a watch or the clock to check the time. There isnâ€™t anything else you need it for during that time.
You Never Smile
Itâ€™s well known that smiling while you communicate puts people at ease, so itâ€™s very important for business leaders to remember to smile.
This isnâ€™t to say you need to be smiling all day every dayâ€”thatâ€™s just as off-putting as never smiling. Just allow yourself to smile if the person you’re talking to smiles, or genuinely laugh when someone makes a joke. Just because you’re a business leader, it doesnâ€™t mean you canâ€™t laugh and joke, too!
No need for a big, toothy grin either. A slight upward curve of the lips is perfectly fine. Whatâ€™s most important is that it looks genuine.
Donâ€™t forget to smile when youâ€™re on the phone, too. Even though the person youâ€™re talking to canâ€™t actually see it, theyâ€™ll hear it. Body language transfers to the voice, too, so when you arenâ€™t smiling you actually sound more monotone. Smiling helps to convey a sense of warmth and enthusiasm to the person on the other end of the line.
Donâ€™t worry if smiling on demand doesnâ€™t come to you immediately. It happens to a lot of people, especially business leaders. Itâ€™s simply something to keep in mind and work on.
Mismatching Your Body Language and Your Words
Your body language needs to match what youâ€™re saying, especially when youâ€™re giving instructions or saying something important. In fact, people tend to trust what someoneâ€™s body language says over what theyâ€™re actually speaking. You could be telling someone that itâ€™s important for them to finish a certain task by the end of the day, but if you seem distracted and your shoulders are slumped, someone might think that you donâ€™t actually care when itâ€™s done. Even if you donâ€™t mean to send the wrong message, others can receive it that way.
So, if youâ€™re praising someone for doing a good job, your body language also needs to indicate that youâ€™re happy with their work. Keep your arms uncrossed, smile, and let your voice be enthusiastic.
â€œBeing able to share in their individual successes, brings team members together and motivates them to work for something greater than themselves.â€ – COO Alliance
Not Mirroring the Person Youâ€™re Talking To
Throughout a conversation, it is important to mirror the other personâ€™s body language so as to show them you understand what theyâ€™re talking about. Behavioral aspects to mirror are their tone of voice, posture, tempo, and gestures.
This doesnâ€™t mean you completely copy them, though. If someone is talking excitedly about a new project, remaining monotone and calm conveys that you donâ€™t care. As a business leader, you need to show that you care. Match the other personâ€™s excitement with a slightly higher voice, faster speech, and more gestures to mirror how the individual is expressing their enthusiasm so that you convey your enthusiasm as well!
You Lack Facial Expressions
Business leaders have often mastered the art of a neutral expression, but if your face is blank all the time people will think that youâ€™re not interested in what theyâ€™re saying. To show interest, try raising your eyebrows, leaning forward, or nodding your head once in a while as they speak.
Eye contact during conversations is also critical. When you need to glance away, try not to look down as doing so signifies a lack of confidence. Either look left or right to send a less off-putting message.
Changing your body language makes a positive difference in your workplace especially if youâ€™re a business leader. Sometimes a small smile at the right moment or a nod of the head is exactly what someone needs to feel like you care about what they have to say.
Avoiding these five body language mistakes is important to create a workspace that is happier and more productive. This is particularly required if youâ€™re a COO or some other high caliber business leader, as your body language can ripple down to many levels of employees who report to you.
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Editorâ€™s Note: This post was originally published in October 2017 and has been edited for accuracy and comprehensiveness.